Tips to Become a Stronger Personality in 2024

A strong personality cannot be bought but needs to be earned and built. Building a strong personality requires practice and consistency. It’s the complete package of your emotional, psychological, intellectual, and habitual manifestation. A person with a strong personality knows their value and their decisions. People with weak personalities get influenced by others and the environment so easily, while a person with a strong personality holds it tight. Today, we will share some tips to build a stronger personality.

Here are our 10 tips to build and practice a stronger personality:

1. Thoughts + Words = Action: Your thoughts and words turn into your actions. Your repeated actions become your habits, and your habits decide your lifestyle. You’ll see negative people around you, you’ll see people who always complain. Stay away from this kind of person. Because when you are surrounded by these kinds of people, you start to think like them, you start to complain like them. This is called the neighbourhood effect. Remember, your thoughts are a reflection of your words. If you’re around that circle who always talks about the problems but not the solution, then it is time to get out of that circle. And find people who inspire you, who practice positivity, you’ll automatically turn into a positive person. And if you don’t find anyone then try being alone & start consuming positive content, read positive books, listen to podcasts that encourage you to think positively. So, first of all, make your thoughts & words positive. Your life will automatically start to turn positive.
2. Avoid Self-judgment: Everyone thinks the world is judging them. And this is called the spotlight effect. But in reality, the world isn’t judging you as much as you are judging yourself. How often do you think of what others are doing? Do you think much? No, right? The same way, people also don’t have enough energy & time to think about what you’re wearing, what you’re doing & how you’re showing up. So, stop judging yourself, stop that debate inside you & allow your inner confidence to surpass your yesterday’s version.
3. Develop Skills: Skills are actually what make you confident & honest. You need to study yourself to find out what you like to do. If you’re someone who still doesn’t know what their core strengths & preferences are then search the internet about the most demanding skills in the next 5-10 years. Pick one or two skills and start learning. It’s better if you start with more than one skill for the first two months & keep practicing at the same time in a row. Then after two months of practice, you’ll know which you have interest the most. And once you pick the skill you want to learn, Keep the hard work alive for the next one year. And become one of the best in the world. It is skills that will work as your best advantage & strength all over life.

4. Earn Money: We have kept this at number four. But this should be at the top of the list. Firstly, start working on any stable job or income stream. And that will only happen when you start working on your skills. Focus on earning money more than spending. Make a strong goal & attack it daily through consistent efforts & deep work. And the truth is that only by earning money will you be able to take the responsibilities of your family. Whatever you earn, don’t forget to invest a small portion of that.

5. Be Curious & Produce at The Same Time: Mostly I see people around me don’t have the spark to explore something which is a little bit more difficult than mindless scrolling. Our brain hates challenges. It always finds a comfort zone & wants us to get used to that comfort zone. It’s human nature. Then the question arises, how do people get so curious, work so hard & achieve successes? The answer is small successes. When you become curious about something, find a way to get small success out of that curiosity. Success can be any sort of. You can make a quick video of what you’ve learned, you can write on that topic & post it, if you’re someone who is shy & doesn’t want to reveal identity then there are also thousands of options to be anonymous & see how your works are getting appraisal from others. Remember, producing something is the best feeling in the world of success. Remember, the enthusiasm & curiosity only lasts as long as you taste the successes.

6. Learn from Mistakes: We always have heard that, you’ll make mistakes while learning. But is it actually true? Do we make mistakes while we learn? It’s difficult to know if it is a mistake or not while learning. We only know if it’s a mistake when we try it. You’ll get many corrections from others when you first start doing something. But first of all, you’ve to accept that you are a noob/beginner. When you accept the fact that, you start to receive others’ criticism wholeheartedly. Don’t answer to any of the criticisms you get like you’re a specialist. Just DON’T even if the criticizers are completely wrong. One day when you will actually become a pro, you’ll see only the constructive criticisms you’re giving value to. If you reply at the very first place, YOU LOSE IT ALL. That’s why accept the fact that you know nothing & one remember, you are a thousand times better than those who have never tried.

7. Never Be Dependent on Anyone: No matter how much you love anyone but never be so obsessed that you become dependent on that person for your own happiness. If you do this, You’ll always feel insecure. Always keep a “Plan B & Plan C”. If you keep depending on only one thing for your happiness think of being happy without that one thing. It feels like questioning our own existence. So, don’t be dependent on anyone or only one thing. Make multiple sources of happiness so that you don’t question your existence without that one thing. Your happiness is your own responsibility. So, stop blaming others for your unhappiness.

8. Accept that Your Journey is Different Than Others: Everyone has different fingerprints and as that, everyone’s journey is also different. You belong to a completely different family & social surroundings than your friends or someone who is your inspiration. Your reality is also different. You have your own privileges, struggles and they have their own. So, the reality is far different than the dream. Don’t just see other people’s lifestyle around you & wish to lead that lifestyle. Just by seeing other people’s lifestyle don’t get distracted from your own life. Trust your journey & live your own truth.

9. Shift Your Negative Energy into Positive Energy: Your energy reflects in your life. So transform your energy from negative to positive. We all are affected by several bad habits and negative energies. It could be mindless scrolling, porn addiction, listening to songs, oversleeping or over-resetting. The best way to get rid of every sort of negative energy is to get yourself SUDDENLY into a hard routine. You’ll think of improving your routine day by day. But in most cases, that doesn’t happen. Get yourself into a hard routine firstly then you’ll see improving yourself day by day. Work out, meditate, PRAY, eat healthy, talk to positive people, make a positive neighborhood that will refrain yourself from all the negative energy. And be responsible for your physical & mental health.

10. Be Supportive to Others: Supporting others & showing GRATITUDE brings another level of peace into life. Start supporting the good things others are doing & compliment them to make better. Trust me, even if you’re not trying to do good in your own life, you’ll see some unexpected positive things happening in your mind. And when you love others, support others, the whole energy comes into your life in other ways. And also remember, when someone supports you and makes you feel motivated always show them the gratitude which encourages the other person to support you more. And doing this makes your personality way more improved than ever before.

Lastly it needs to be said that, don’t just watch motivational videos or read motivational articles. You really need to work on those things. Save this post & stop your mindless scrolling. And when you feel lack of motivation & feel low read the article & get your ass back to work.